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Friday, November 24, 2006

Carrot, Egg, or Coffee

Hi All

I just received this in my email today and it is a must that I share it with you kind souls out there:

Carrot, Egg, or Coffee...

(You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again...)

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.


Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil,without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity - boiling water. Each reacted differently.


The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, It releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.


When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

You might want to share this message to those people who mean something to you (I JUST DID); to those who have touched your life in one way or another; to those who make you smile when you really need it; to those who make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down; to those whose friendships you appreciate; to those who are so meaningful in your life. If you, you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone's day with this message! It's easier to build a child than repair an adult.

May we all be COFFEE!


Ruby
www.happymomentscandle.com

Monday, November 13, 2006

Festival of Dreams


If you haven't been using candles during your holiday festivities, you're missing out. Consider Christmas for a moment. Electronic lights are pretty, both on the Christmas tree and outside the house, but what if you add a few candles to the mix? A lone candle on a window sill can evoke powerful emotions. Peace, serenity, joy; and those other feelings that can't be defined with mere words.
The influence of candles can be a little tough to nail down to specifics, but there is no doubt that you get so much more than a light source when you buy one. With some of the splendid scents available at HappyMomentsCandle.com, you'll find yourself awash in memories and happiness. The best part is that you can create new memories that will be triggered anew each time you use that scent.
While we’re thinking about smell, it has to be said: there’s nothing like a home filled with the beautiful scent of a quality candle. Or several candles! It’s like an animal instinct – when a place smells warm and inviting, it will feel more comfortable and far more relaxing. Try to picture a corporate meeting, only with candles and dim lights instead of the normal setting. Imagine the scent of vanilla, calming and relaxing everyone – it changes everything, doesn’t it? Candles are powerful in any situation, but even more so in your own home, and especially during a holiday when you might have guests!

One of the other great qualities of a candle during a festive season is their flexibility. No, I’m not just talking about choosing a scent! The way your candles are arranged, and what you place them in, will have a remarkable impact on their appearance. A candle on a pillar will have a very different visual effect than a votive candle, much like a beautiful voice can sing so many different notes to inspire different feelings. In many cases, you can even choose the shape of the candle itself!

With all of those options, and a little creativity, you can create the perfect ambiance for any holiday season. If you are one of those brave souls that hosts a lot of parties, you’ll quickly appreciate just how important a few strategically placed candles can be. You’ll make your entire home smell and feel so welcoming – just don’t be surprised if you catch a few of your guests staring quietly into the candlelight now and then.

Candles make great gifts, too. Since soy-based candles are very safe, like the excellent handmade variety available right here at HappyMomentsCandle.com, you’ll feel good knowing that you’re giving a gift that doesn’t have any negative side-effects – and one that lasts a long time. It’s very easy to give out dozens of smaller candles to all of your guests without spending a fortune or inconveniencing them with large packaging, too!

There’s a lot of powerful history between candles and the holidays. Create your own with the help of your creativity and HappyMomentsCandles.com – and watch memories come alive in your friends and family. Make each day your own Festival of Dreams.
Ruby Lim

Friday, November 03, 2006

Christmas Candle Packages



Hi All!

It's that time of the year when we are thinking of what to get for our loved ones. Yes, Christmas is just round the corner! Go to www.jarcandletoppers.com for some ideas you may want to consider.

Good Tidings!

Ruby
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